Its interesting because you have a very Uranus/Mercury personality,Sun-Aqua ruled by Uranus
Moon-Gem ruled by Mercury
Mercury-Cap ruled by Saturn
Venus-Aqua ruled by Uranus
Mars-Gemini ruled by Mercury
Mercury brings intellect and brilliance. Uranus brings sudden change.And the mix can produce someone who only delights in the most interesting of things. And runs away from boredom at all costs.
Saturn passed through your Venus some time in the last two years; surfacing feelings of loneliness and exclusion or being misunderstood and not fitting into any particular mold.
But with it , it also brought questions on whether or not you are willing to give up some of the freedom that you have enjoyed in order to be with a partner etc.
The natal Merc/Uranus square with trans Uranus will double up on the sudden flashes of insights and perspectives that you gain. But it may not help in making you any more stable than you have been.
The need to relate could be brought about by the conjunct of Pluto to Uranus(ruler of Sun) and Mercury(ruler of Moon).
You could want more intimacy(Pluto). But be very uncomfortable to change the very foundation of how you have been operating all along. And something has to give.
Pluto already challenged Uranus by conjunction; making sure that you understanding that "change for changes sake" is no good if the psychological gains are not transformative.
This may have had you redefine the direction your life is headed and the plans you made. Perhaps wanting something that involves more intimacy?
In this case, since it is Aquarius, it could be that you yearned to meet someone with whom you can share your ideas with?
If you are still unsure or have not completed the work, Pluto will sit on that Mercury(together with erratic Uranus) and bring about a definite change in perspectives.
This will invariably influence the way you respond to the environment(Moon in Gemini is ruled by Mercury) and you may find yourself having all sorts of emotional breakdowns and breakthroughs.